Tuesday, January 27, 2009

2 week recap

Quick summary about life:

1. The leak is fixed!! My parents came up on Saturday afternoon and saved the day. When my dad went up into the ceiling and touched the pipe, it actually disintegrated into his hands! That's how moldy it was...yuck! The downside to this situation is that we galvanized pipe throughout the house, which in my father's expert opinion, is very unhealthy based on the erosion that can happen inside the pipe. I guess that's what you get for buying a house built in the 1940's.

2. I GOT A RAISE! This is the first time in my working career this has happened. I have worked hard and I truly believe I deserve it, but in times where people are losing jobs, its bittersweet.

3. Matt and I have actually made a list of projects we would like to do around the house in the coming year. We've decided to focus on giving the house a facelift, focusing on improving what we have structurally. The only other furniture we will buy is stuff for our bedroom. Matt wants to upgrade to a queen size bed and I would like some new dressers so we will have to compromise on this. I think I'm going to try to create a headboard myself to save us some money from fabric that I find. We are also going to repaint the entire inside of the house. We picked a blue gray called Buxton Blue, a historic color from Benjamin Moore, for our bedroom. We are still deciding on if we are going to change the colors in the hallway and living room, kitchen and dining room. My colors are inspired from a hydrangea wreath that our best friends, Kristin and Patrick, bought us for Christmas. But I have to say, it is still really difficult to pick the right color...you walk into Lowes or Home Depot and the shades are sometimes minimally different, it's hard to decide! All part of the learning process....

4. This past Friday, Matt and I met up with Tara and Justin for drinks in New Haven. It was so much fun!! Matt and I truly needed a day night out, which was don't do very often. I blame that mostly on myself because I'm the money conscious one.

5. We are hosting a party in March as an open house/birthday celebration so all of the above household mini projects, will need to be completed...thank god football season is over!

Tuesday, January 13, 2009

Daddy, I kinda have a problem...

So Matt and I officially have our first "unplanned repair" in the house. Prior to leaving for St. Lucia, I noticed some water damage on the ceiling of our kitchen near the chimney. We put off further investigation until yesterday and the results are not good.



On Sunday, Matt cut a small 2x2 hole in the ceiling to see what we could see. Well, our first surprise was to find out that there is no subflooring under our tub. I guess this is a bad thing and since this house was built in the 1940s, before building codes were established, we would eventually learn the downsides of building an older home. Anyway, we couldn't find where the water was coming from so we just put some tape over the hole...great fix, right!



So last night, I call Matt on the way home. He informed me that from us showering in the morning, the water had travelled down the front of the chimney and the wall causing the paint had bubbled off the wall....fantastic! So I get home and Matt has made the hole bigger in the celing, about 4 x 4 now. The ceiling is all over the kitchen floor, cabinets and counter. I hand him the flashlight and still no luck. So I decide to go and turn on the water upstairs to see if we can better determine where the water is coming from. Within 5 minutes, it is really coming out of the hole. So I run upstairs, turn the water off and we pull a little more of the ceiling down and bingo, found it....



A MOLDY T PIPE!!! ok honestly, totally disgusting!! Ok...so now, who am I going to call? DAD! and it went a little something like this..."Um Dad I think Matt and I have a problem...some pipe is all moldy and I need you to come up this weekend to come help fix it...here's Matt cause I don't know what else to explain to you..."



After a long talk with Pops (and if any of you know my father, you would know that conversations are never short), Matt and I try to put together a contrapment to catch the water becuase there is minimal room under this pipe. So I find some tupperware but after we get it up there, we really can't get it out without dumping out all the

Saturday, January 10, 2009

Back from St. Lucia

As I'm writing this, it is about 25 degrees outside in CT. It's snowing with about 2 inches of snow on the ground. About 24 hours before this, I was in 85 degree weather with bright sunny skies, a fruity drink in my hand, a bathing suit on with the waves crashing at my feet! Oh how sweet life can be!



We are officially back from our 6 months late 7 day trip, wait, actually, 8 day, honeymoon trip to St. Lucia (more on the trip extension as you read). It was a very well deserved vacation from the cold weather, work and excellent way to start 2009!



We left from Kristin and Patrick's new home in Queens in the early hours of New Years Day after a great New Years Eve night of food, games and of course, drinks made by Patrick...the perfect send off party! We arrived in St. Lucia around 4 pm, about a 4 hour plane ride; then we had an hour ride across the island to our destination, Sandals La Toc Regency Spa and Resort, around 5 pm. The hour ride across the island was the most interesting part of the ENTIRE day! They drive on the opposite side of the road as well as drive on what is our passenger side. The roads are narrow, very windy with significant changes in elevation. And if you don't drive fast enough, the locals fly by you. It was quite interesting on some of these turns at about a 90 degree turn, to actually watch people pass us by, with oncoming traffic!



Upon our arrival, the weather was slightly cloudy with a light drizzle. We went to bed early that night, exhausted from the day of travel and sitting on my butt. I prayed to my grandfather that night that the weather would be heavenly in the AM....



Well, the weather was not heavenly. All day Friday, it rained on and off with very cloudy skies; the rain wasn't heavy, just made it cold to lay on a beach chair and read a book. So instead of laying on the beach, Matt parked in butt at the swim up bar and we befriended a couple from New Orleans, Megan and John. Well, Matt and John decided that after a few fruity mixed drinks, that they would try and conquer "the board." "The Board" is a list of popular drink requests that they make. To sum it up, Matt had about 8 of these drinks in approximately 2 hours. This does not include the drinks he had before they started on "the board." Needless to say, I was starving at this point and asked Matt to get out of the pool to come eat lunch. He stumbled out of the pool with that glassy look in his eyes...he was drunk. We ate lunch @ the buffet and as we ate, I think I repeated myself within our short conversation a few times because Matt had no attention span. After lunch, it was drizzling so we walked over to our room and Matt literally passed out on the bed in a fetal position. He woke up 3 hours later and he promised to not try and conquer the board anymore. I said something about lunch and he looked at me with a blank stare and asked, "What did I eat for lunch?" Yup, that's my husband. Later on that night, we found out that John actually got sick and was sleeping in the tub of his room for a while. What a way to kick off vacation!!!



Again, I went to bed that night, praying to the heavens above for some fun in the sun. I went to bed that night, dreaming of floating in the pool with my sunglasses on and my Malibu BayBreeze in my hand. When I opened the curtains on Saturday morning, it was the same old story. Rain, clouds and minimal sun : ( I think Matt could sense I was ready to kill someone at this point. I was optomistic; I lathered myself in sunscreen, put on my bathing suit and cover up with my sandals, packed my UA bag with books and magazines, took the umbrella from the room and headed to breakfast. As we sat in the Pavillion, it started to downpour. It was unreal. I really thought someone from above was trying to punish me for something. Anyway, when it stopped raining, we claimed some chairs near the pool. I really refused to move at this point, even if it started to rain again. I guess you can say I was trying to put up a fight with the weather gods. After a few small little showers, the sun started to pier through the clouds after lunchtime. It didn't rain the rest of the day, which was a win to me!



I went to bed that night, confident that the next day would cooperate with me and did it ever! Everyday after that, the sun shined about 90% of the day. On average, St. Lucia gets an inch of rain a day. It wasn't unlikely to get some rain or drizzle at some point during the day. Laying there on a beach chair, it was somewhat refreshing when the hot sun was beating down on you for a while. It reminded me of when we were kids and you'd run through the sprinkler to cool off. The weather was absolutely perfect for the rest of the vacation.



Matt and I also made friends with an awesome couple from Indiana, Ian and Meghan. They were on the flight with us down to St. Lucia and experienced that crazy drive across the island after we landed. Not to embarrass Ian or anything, but he could seriously pass as Peyton Manning! I said something to Megan one of the days we were laying out on the chairs near the pool and she laughed, "He gets that ALOT." We all hit it off! We had dinner almost every night together with conversations recalling our days back in college, our weddings, how we met, our jobs...you know, the usual. We had a blast together people watching at the pool or the beach everyday; Matt and Ian usually had something funny to say about somebody.

Sunday night, Matt and I enjoyed a private 5 course dinner overlooking the beach, which was a wedding present from Diana. Oh my god, the food was amazing and actually normal American food size portions! The funniest part about the whole dinner was the salad. The salad was placed inside a bowl, made of what I thought was lettuce. So I cut into the bowl, took a bite...crunch...and immediately spit it back out. It was actually raw onion! I think I guzzled down my glass of champagne and water and still couldn't get the taste out of my mouth! Matt laughed at me the entire time as this little scene is going on. I didn't eat anymore of the salad after that!

On Monday morning, we all boarded a bus to one of St. Lucia's rainforests for a canopy tour to be Jane and Tarzan for the day. This sounds so childish but it was the coolest thing I've ever done in my life! It included 19 platforms and 12 ziplines, alot of hiking and alot of laughs, especially from me. On the video, you'll see how much I laugh and smile as I go down this zipline. Matt had the ability to hook my camera up to the harnass for videa. The views of the landscape were breathtakingly beautiful. While initating Jane, you had to remind yourself to look around and not necessarily infront of you or you'd miss out on the litte waterfalls, streams and huge trees. Again, absolutely AMAZING!

Wednesday, we had a couples massage....again, AMAZING. Matt has never had a massage and he was a little big nervous before it started. But after an hour of soothing music, tension reducing scents and a Swedish massage, Matt and I had gone to heaven and back. I looked over at Matt after it was all over and his words were, "I never knew it would feel that good." Yeah, apparently I don't do it for him : (

Now this is where the vacation gets interesting! Thursday our departure on AA 2018 was scheduled for 5:40 pm so we departured Sandals at 2 pm for our hour long trip back across the island. When we arrived at the airport, the line was rather long and didn't really seem to be moving. An American Airlines employee approached me and with a smile on my face says to me, "Did you know your flight has been cancalled?" I just looked and him and with a little laugh said, "Yeah." Like yeah, good joke. After a few minutes, I said to Matt that the guy had said something about our flight being cancelled but he seemed to be kidding. I took a stroll over to the board and in blinking red...

AA 2018 CANCELLED!

I couldn't believe it! We were there with Megan and Ian, as well as two other couples. We had no idea why the flight was cancelled, if something else would be coming in. So we stood online for about another hour and a half, playing out what we would say at the ticket counter and various situations that could arise. When we got to the counter, we found out that there were problems with the plane and our only option would be to fly out tomorrow....FABULOUS!

So now instead of a direct flight, we would have to fly into Miama and then JFK. But we couldn't fly into JFK because that flight was overbooked. So it was either LGA or Newark; obviously LGA. We were then informed that we would have to be back @ the airport when the counter opened @ 12:30 to ensure that we would get our flight to Miama...ok flight out @ 3:50...awesome! However, the greatest news ever was when the nice young lady at the ticket counter said this, " I've reserved seats for you in the emergency exit row for your flight up to Miama. I may lose my job for this but I bumped you up to Business class for your flight from Miama to New York." OMG...I wanted to jump over the counter and kiss this young lady. "Here are your vouchers for a cab to the hotel, back to the airport in the morning and a voucher for the hotel. You will be staying at Coconut Bay." Coconut Bay was a family all inclusive 10 minutes from the hotel. We walked into the hotel...this definitely was not the Regency. Our rooms was painted various colors with a run down couch, a very small chair and a bed that seemed to have a covering of plastic under it....oh yeah!

So to make a long story short, we finally left St. Lucia on Friday @ 3:50 PM, got into LGA @ 12 AM on Saturday; back in CT @ 2 AM. It was an extremely long day but lets put it this way...Matt and I will pay to fly First Class any day of the week. We got drinks as soon as we got on the plane, hot peanuts as a snack, burgers and salads, a large warm cookie, mints and a hot towel. This was in a 2 1/2 hour flight period! Absolutely AMAZING. Matt and I literally laughed with everything that came to us.

So to summarize it all, it was an absolutely AMAZING vacation. Unfortunately, reality is around the corner with an early morning wake up call tomorrow @ 5 AM...wippee!

Tuesday, December 9, 2008

What Do the Holidays Mean to You?

Sometimes, I wish I could turn back the clock and be a kid again during the holidays. Christmas meant Santa, which always equaled presents. I remember waiting in anticipation of the Toys R Us book or the big Sears catalog to come home and mark off all the presents we hoped to open on Christmas morning. You'd write a letter to Santa, with all the gifts you wanted, explaining you were a good boy or girl and why you deserved such big gifts. You'd wait in anticipation for weeks for a letter back. The night before Christmas, you'd set out your cookies and milk for Santa to eat; we always put carrots out for the reindeer too. Sometimes, you'd sleep and stare at the ceiling, waiting to hear the hooves of reindeer on the roof or a HoHoHo from Santa. But the best part of all was Christmas morning; the smell of my mom putting cinnamon buns in the oven and making hot chocolate; my dad getting the video camera ready and Sarah and I waiting to run down the stairs...I remember lots of bags filled with wrapping paper, mom and dad fighting as to who should open their presents first and oh how good those cinnamon buns were and how sticky my fingers would be after eating 2 or 3.
When you are a kid at Christmas, you don't worry about who to buy for, how much to spend or who's house to go first so you don't insult the other side of the family. The innocence of the holiday is lost as you grow up...
Today, the holidays for me isn't about presents; it's about being with family and friends. Over the past few holidays, I've looked back and sometimes thought of how childish it seemed that all you wanted was the best of the best on Christmas day to go brag about at school. And a Christmas list...I really can't even tell you the last time I sat down to write a Christmas list. My mom asked me this past weekend what I wanted and I really can't think of one thing I really want; it's sad but true.
The things I want you can't buy; they are the things that I believe, we as human beings need in our everyday lives; friendship, love, health, a sense of family....it's a time to reflect on all the good things you have and realize how life precious is. This year has been an absolute blessing and I wouldn't change on bit of it. ...
The holidays are a reminder that life is short and you should cherish every moment you have in the one that you've got; no matter how bad it seems. It's not about presents but being around the people that mean the most to you; that you hold dear to your heart....
The holidays are about traditions...every Christmas, my mom has gotten Sarah and I ornaments that are significant to something that happened within the past year. I now have 25 of them to now hang on my Christmas tree. It's a present I always cherise opening on Christmas morning; I hope to continue the tradition with my own family. This year is really the first year I will not be at my parents house on Christmas Eve or Christmas Day, but most importantly Christmas morning. I know I could kick and scream and Matt would go to NY, but it's time for me to be a grown up and wake up to my husband on Christmas morning in our first home. But I can promise you, I will be making cinnamon buns and hot chocolate!

So before you let the holidays get to you, I hope you can remember the innocence of the holiday season that used to be and reflect on what you are truly grateful for! Ok now I'm tearing up....

Sunday, December 7, 2008

Toys for Tots...

Just realized I didn't post this. Thanksgiving weekend, Matt and I assisted in hosting a Christmas party to benefit Toys for Tots with our best friends, Kristin and Patrick. The party was a complete success with two boxes stuffed with toys. It was a great night with lots of drinks and food, which is always positive in our books. I've included some pictures from the night: Kristin and I making a build a box gingerbread house as well as Matt and Patrick at the beginning of the night : )










Summer in December



In a weekend, I officially changed my name on my license/passport, bought a dining room table and a grill!

Yes, it has taken me almost 6 months to change the name on my license and passport, but I am under a time crunch to get it done since Matt and I leave for St. Lucia on New Years Day. I take after my mom...I am a procrastinator. So I am officially a Le******. It's not an easy adjustment; I was never the girl who signed her name everyday looking at how my new name would look. And I don't have my PT license changed yet, so I cannot legally sign my notes @ work. So I still have a little bit of my pre-marriage name attended to me! I hated my last name when I was in school for all the obnixous knocks on it but for some reason, it's hard to move onto another name. You feel like you are losing part of your identity. Most of all, you realize that you are now an adult and more adult things are on the way. For example....

Since we've moved into the house, we've been looking for a dining room table so it has been approximately 6 weeks. Our kitchen is not an eat in kitchen, so we needed a table we could use everyday that would distress well. We have been to almost every furniture store you can name and finally settled on 2 tables @ Crate and Barrel. Both of them are mango wood, so they are ego friendly, which was huge for me. One table, the Cabria, had the planks horizontal with removable leaf to expand the table to 82 inches long from 60 inches long. The second table, Basque, an antique farmhouse style, has vertical planks with a honeybrown finish but does not have a leaf and sits @ 82 inches long. For the past 3 weeks,Matt and I have been back and forth 4-5 x looking @ both tables. We have taped in out on the floor and surrounded it with folding chairs. And we've had multiple opinions...

And the decision was......the antique farmhouse style table! Though we were concerned about the size of the table, it is truly a spectacular piece of furniture. It is all wood with a lacquer finish; the beauty of this table will be enhanced by the beating it takes over the years. Delivery is scheduled for Saturday. I promise to take pictures when it gets here!

As our Saturday went on, we took our weekly trip to Lowes to get some Christmas decorations! Well, instead of walking out with Christmas decorations, we bought a grill. To be more precise, it is a Char Briol Quantum commercial grade infraded grill! It is the mother of all grills I've ever seen and it's hard to resist when all Matt has ever wanted was a big grill. It retails for $1,000 and we bought it for $350, thanks to my clipping of coupons! Matt is a kid in a candy store right as I've watched him put it together. As it grew in size, his eyes grew wider and this silly smile came across his face. It really was the one thing he said he wanted when we got a house, so his dream has officially been fulfilled. He's also said on multiple occasions that he would like an LCD TV, but I put the squash on that...it was the grill or the TV : ) Technology is a guy thing, something I may never understand, but to me, we have a good size TV and as my father would say, "If its not broke, don't fix it!" Then this morning, we woke up to approximately an inch of snow on the ground. To my dismay, it is officially winter : ( Matt had a flag football game @ 9 AM so we both bundled up and braved the weather. I don't like missing his games; for one, he traveled the entire east coast when I played soccer in college. In all the road games, I believe he only missed one over a 4 year period. My other reason for always going is my own personal list of injuries. For those of you who don't know, I've broken my left arm 3 times. The last time was the worst; I was playing in a summer league soccer game, a game that none of my parents were suppose to be at. Luckily, for me, my mom was able to get out of work early and take me. Not even 20 minutes into the game, I went down with the 3rd broken arm. In the back of my mind, I always remember that I was suppose to be there by myself so I always make sure I'm at Matt's game, god for bid something did happen. Plus, on multiple occasions, I have served as the athletic trainer to tape guys up or assess an injury. Anyway, Matt's team won the game and it was cold; my toes started to burn with pain they were so cold! So another busy weekend in the books!